Tag: anxiety
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Stark contrasts with noise!
Yep here I am whinging on about noise…again! There will be a flip side though. I’ve been living with tinnitus for several years now. I had become used to it. Over the last couple of days the sound has changed in my right ear. It started with a numbness around my right jaw just in…
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Sleep do not forsake me.
I went to bed at a decent time on Sunday night. Then I tossed and turned. I dozed off, my bladder woke me up almost instantly. The steroid cream stung. I climbed back under the duvet and tossed and turned. I got up again and went to the lounge to get my book. I thought…
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How? Why?
How am I still standing? Why am I still here? Death has come for me many times. Death a visitor in my life. Until the final visit. In my childhood, Died a thousand deaths . Breathing difficulties many times, I’m still here. Heart attack at 32, Still here. Suicide attempts, Still here. Doctors said at…
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Thursday night…phew
Why phew? Because there’s no commitments for the next two days! Possibly three days if I don’t sing with choir on Sunday. I hadn’t let myself step into the exhaustion of yesterday’s Dermatology appointment as I had to go to volunteering this morning. I don’t normally count the minutes until home time when I volunteer.…
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Diagnoses and waiting lists.
It’s been a day. My anxiety was running high for my upcoming Dermatology appointment today. I went to the GP surgery first as it’s in the same site as the hospital. The receptionist there confirmed it will take at least six months for my records to appear on the NHS app. I wandered over to…
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Secrets.
Words and memories run through my mind, They don’t erode with the passing of time. The secrets I hold and must never say, Remain in my heart night and day. Don’t hold them close nor so tight, Feelings don’t let go without a fight. Wrap them gently and store them in a box, Seal it…
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Hibernating to recover.
I had already decided on Wednesday night that I would not be going out for four days. On Thursday my choir buddy asked me if I wanted to go somewhere this weekend and I declined. Today the hospital phoned to arrange an appointment for the ultrasound on my hands and wrists. She offered me an…
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Spoons
The spoon theory is something I refer to quite a lot. It’s used by people with chronic and hidden illnesses to explain the use of their energy. Healthy people wake up with an unlimited supply of spoons. Those of us who struggle with conditions every day have a limited amount of spoons. Every action requires…
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Noise!
I complain about noise…a LOT! My PTSD has meant a lifetime of super sensitive hearing. The first memory I have of feeling truly overwhelmed by noise was when I was about five years old. I was outside my grandmothers house on her brightly painted red step. A motorbike with a loud engine came roaring down…
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Confusion?
What is this? On Tuesday I was convinced I was coming down with the flu. This isn’t the flu! This is the same pattern that has been plaguing me for the last two years. Is this an autoimmune flare up? Is this how things are going to look like for the rest of my life?…
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Disappointment and fear.
I was so excited on Sunday. Our new choir song had came through for the new choir term that started last night. There’s always a buzz of excitement and anticipation waiting for the new song on a Sunday. Mostly it’s a hit with the majority and occasionally we breathe a collective sigh of disappointment. it’s…
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Singing My Songs
Sad songs, deep songs, love songs Singing out my sorrow, Sing them all again tomorrow. Sing out my songs, Scream out my wrongs… The sky is falling in, Let the music play my sins. In my heart the thunder roars, My body always keeps the score. I ain’t going down without a fight. Through the…
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Arrgh Anxiety!
It was 46 days ago that my cat died. The grief is still raw. I’m trying to work with the anxiety I have with my remaining cat. I underestimated how much she would grieve for him. Before he died if anyone would have asked me if both my cats had a close relationship I would…
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Mysterious pains!
I had been slowly pottering around this quiet Sunday morning. Watering the plants. I put a couple of loads of washing on. Played with the cat. No out of the ordinary symptoms just the usual things. My ASDA delivery arrived just after 1pm. The delivery guy drags three crates up the 28 steps to my…
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Fatigue
As I sit here listening to calming cat music on Spotify my body aches with the fatigue. The music isn’t for me, my cat seemed unusually frightened of the thunderstorm we just had. She hasn’t quite adjusted to the loss of my other cat. I don’t think either of us have. Plus my four days…
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Keep calm and carry on!
Yesterday’s fear after my ex neighbour knocking on the door whilst I was puppy sitting had thrown me. My alters paranoia shot through the roof and conspiracy theories were rife. People had seen taking me Peanut out. What if one of the other neighbours had contacted him? Maybe he thought that I wouldn’t be expecting…
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Nervous system re activated!
Last month one of my neighbours got a five month old dachshund. I went with her to pick him up. His previous owner only had him for two months but her young son was too boisterous with the tiny dog so she decided to rehome him. His name is Peanut and he is adorable. I…
